Помогите ответить, заранее спасибо: DEAR WISE ONE My neighbor…

Помогите ответить, заранее спасибо: DEAR WISE ONE My neighbor,who I will call Joanna, comes to my home with her three children without calling me first.She is very pleasant and friendly, but I sometimes like my privasy, and I would like to have a chence to clean my home before visitors come over. I'm afraid that if I tell her not to come without calling first, she might get angry and never come again. I don't have many friends and do not want to lose this one. What should I do? Помогите написать совет на англ, если не сложно и перевод